In moments of generosity, I try to understand the impulse. Sometimes it’s on the basis of their presentation other times it’s because of how long they’ve been out or how many other partners they’ve had or currently have. But sometimes, often in the context of dating and partnership, I’ve encountered folks who try to pull rank, to be “gayer than thou” however they can.
It’s one thing to acknowledge and honor the vast variety of queer experiences and the different ways people have experienced marginalization and harm.
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