All you need to do is imagine being out as a gay man/woman.How to Use the Law of Attraction to Come Out as Gay/Bisexual With the Law of Attraction, you set goals and act as if you already have that goal. I am writing this as a neuroscientist, by the way this is not magic nor pseudoscience. How? Your thoughts govern your actions, and your daily actions/habits dictate your entire life. This concept is the infamous Law of Attraction, which is the idea that you can manifest anything into your reality.